advice for those entering a new group or foster home

www.createspace.com/3587372

the above is the link to my self help book for teens: surviving foster care and making it work for you!! Every teen in foster care should get a copy!! If you aged out, get one, you will learn new things! 

Hi blog family! i have a video advice on 1st day at new foster home or group home or halfway house! click:

http://youtu.be/GUkeF2gBXMA


have a great day and smile, someone is watching you!
xo Tanya

message delivered for national foster care awareness month

hi blog family!
Today was wonderful! I was able to deliver a message  to Westchester County-glad we are all on the same page. Foster care has grown since 1971.  Our kids are blessed and should take full advantage of where they are at!! I am grateful my mom gave me away, she was sick but I am completing my purpose and I am grateful she birthed me. Be grateful today, especially if you ARE in care, you could have ended up like lisa steinberg or be in the ghetto's of soweto or in India, getting married off at 9 because the family has no money! Things could always be worse, be grateful for EVERYTHING in your life, even the bad, because it will motivate you (when the pain is great enought) to TRY something new or find a new way out!!! Find ways to enjoy this life, it is short and you must complete your divine purpose, go out an enjoy the world, dont let anyone or anything stop you, you are it!! xo Tanya

advice for the day

hi blog family!

just some advice today: Stay on your toes, focus and enjoy the day meditating and thinking: how can I make this day better than yesterday? Who can I be of service to ..remember helping others takes you out of your problems for a minute and lets you see--your not alone in this wonderful world filled with challenges and adventure at every turn! Enjoy the day-you are loved, needed and if you smile, you may save or change a life today!!! xo Tanya

May 18th celebration!

Hi blog family!

been very busy planning May 18th. I will post event but you know two things about me: my spell check works at will and 2nd...i am not tech savvy!! I can admit this because not every thing is for everybody!! I know my lane, which is speaking and creating, and I stay in it!! I want those that live in NY to come out and help me raise awareness, (in our Westchester area), on foster care! I will be reminding you again. RSVP is required!!
Today go out and take a long walk. meditate on all the good in your life NOW and the good that will COME into your life as you think positive from today on...xo smile someone is watching you because you are a star!! (SHINE)..:)

Tanya

You are Powerful!!

Hi blog family!

My energy level is back to 100% as I sit here thinking about how to motivate you and take you to the next level after leaving foster care! 

You are SO marvelous, spectabular, brilliant, lovable, talented, and SPECIAL, just for suviving the system! Just for seeking knowledge-you are spectacular!!

The universe has great plans for you- if you LISTEN to what it tell you to do and ACT on it.!!! You did not go through something for nothing!!! How can YOU be of SERVICE to OTHERS in care????

 From today on remember you are a force to be reckoned with--that means you are POWERFUL-you have a job to do--help others in care!! 

You are brigher than the sun, 

stronger than "hercules"

as loving as a mother to a child, (ok maybe not ours)...lol

As big as the earth!

Nothing and NO one can stop YOU but YOU!!! 

Think of ALL the gifts you have, find out what they are, use them to your ADVANTAGE to help others in care!!!

You were put here for divine purpose, find out why and DO IT!!!

I have 100% faith in you!

 If you don't know your purpose and don't beleive me think back to all the people you helped in your life--even your real family--you bought joy to someone, somewhere and you helped someone at sometime!

It's ok if  you don't feel what I am saying but until you discover YOUR talent, gifts and Purpose, assist those that are doing good. Just give them support by being there or giving a smile of approval or a good word--and don't let haters infultrate!!!

You are blessed, special and favored...go getem!!!! xo Tanya

ps. this is NOT subliminal- I am encouraging those who had a thought and are not acting on it!!

Everything you do should be calculated for YOU!!!