energy equals energy

Hi blog family!
Been very busy trying to get the book to the public!! I will try to make my blogs shorter for now, as time is very important! I hope you are all well and enjoying this life!

Message for the day:

As soon as you wake, you should do so with joy!

You are alive, YOU are with health!
You can create change-in an instant with your mind and attitude!!
Wake up with a smile on your face and joy in your heart- you should feel like you won $1 million dollars- everyday!!!

 Life is not promised to us forever-so enjoy it each and every minute/day!
Teach your children to wake early-with joy- not complaining about its too early--too early for what? for life?
to live?
 to explore all the earth has??
NEVER to early!
Smile when you go out your door (and when you in your house with kids)...your energy WILL effect how they act: if your angry, mad, yelling, upset, nervous, loud, mean, violent--how can they become anything but that!.. 

You are in total control of your life! (yes, even if your "broke"- ) that can pass-if you start planning how to get out of poverty, depression (you can NOT have alot of tangable money and REALLY enjoy life!) I am proof!!
 I make do with what I have!
You have to learn this, it is not taught in a foster or group home because everyone in charge is thinking since you have a roof" you ok....NOT
we have to learn how to enjoy life and ourselves-with or without family, money etc..

 Please wake up "feeling" great- how you feel will determine your day toward others...lastly..."smile, someone may be watching you", especially if you have kids! xo tanya
 example...:)

E=Energy!

back to school Reminder about energy, friends & negative people

Hi blog family!
I know it's been a minute but I knew the kids started school and you have alot of work!
I want to remind you how to attract good friends at work and deal with negative people at work (or home)lol.......I hope you paid attention in science when they talked about energy!!

Remember: everything on  this earth...is made of energy
you are a ball of energy...some of us show it all the  time, some only when happy or excited.

I want you to do an experiment: (you don't have to tell anyone just do it)...

1.  go into a room (if you have kids try it with them) extremely happy, smiling, feeling great and watch everyone in the room shift their energy....
*once in while you get a person that is just plain "low" on energy, maybe in there house there was no excited moments...that's ok, worry about you and your kids),
2.  pay attention to how they looked before you came in and after you bought in all that good positive energy...
.3.  I bet they are smiling or atleast feeling more upbeat...

this "feeling" works for anything you do in life-- so try to always "feel" good, (tell yourself every morning that you won $50 million)--hold that feeling as if you really won...that will keep your energy up!!!
When your trying to attract new people in your life that are good and positive....it is imporant that you show that trait by trying to always have a smile on your face and a good word to say....to anyone...positive energy attracts positive energy.....negative energy attracts.....negative!

 Stay away from anyone who is'Toxic"--mean, negative, arrogant, evil....whatever you want to call them, they complain all the time and they never have answers or solutions to a problem, they are always jelous, envy or greedy or angry----they only add by fighting, cursing, saying bad negative things, they always looking for the worse--stay away...they will DRAIN your positive energy and shift it to negative...now you will have an attitude or be mad! If you have kids who are negative--shift them to positive by displaying postive yourself...they learned from someone in the home....if you were in a group home or negative foster home--that's where u got it from--it's ok..just change it NOW!!!! it only takes 5 seconds!!! yes, just a shift of your mind and you "feeling" good!!!
when everyone around you is negative..........
Donot let ANYONE steal your postive energy--you can share it to pick someone up or make someone smile but DO NOT let someone turn your energy into negative! not even your family or kids!!!!

HOW DO I KEEP POSITIVE ENERGY?
You do that by always being upbeat, positive, always coming up with a good solution to a problem, not complaining, FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF or worrying but thinking the BEST thing will happen in a situation--BECAUSE YOU DEMAND THE BEST SOLUTION!!.
ok, next topic............lol

I hope your meeting new friends that are going places....HOW WILL I KNOW????
they are usually upbeat and happy,
they go to class,
 help you with homework questions,
 encourage you to pick your head up--EVEN WHEN THINGS LOOK BAD!!
SOPOSE I HAVE A MEAN BOSS....???
IT DOES NOT MATTER WHO IS NEGATIVE OR MEAN.....IT MATTERS THAT YOU USE YOUR POWER OF ENERGY TO SHIFT THEIRS TO POSITIVE!! How??
1. if they are violent and make you mad---walk away for now breath and then address it at a calmer time.
2. if they just never agree with you...do what the boss wants, always smile and keep that "million dollar smile"-- ALL day !!! Don't let anyone steal your joy---- no one can hate on a smiling person or a happy person!!

 just try it, if you stand your happy ground---what can they say??

kill people with kindness or atleast with a smile....

if it's really bad i told take a walk, breath, stay positive and calm.... You are the master of your brain----you can do it on your own with positive energy....energy attracts energy..positive always wins!!!!

ok, you had a very important lesson today, i know its alot but I have to keep reminding you about energy becaue everything you do in this life--requires energy!! 

If you want to be on top or just keep living a quality life with endless hopes and possiblities--stay positive and happy--even when it seems like things are bad---keep your energy up....always feel like you won $50million dollars and your going to pick up the check now!!!!
You are loved special and the universe loves and needs you--cause you are it!!!! smile, someone is watching.....

Enery is flowing, where your attention is going..

Hi blog family!

I have been watching the DVD the secret, again!!!

"Energy flows, where attention goes."- by one of the speakers in the DVD.
They also said "Mother Teresa said: "Don't invite me to a anti-war rally, I will attend a Peace rally."

Both of these quotes are SO vital to you changing your way of thinking!
If you grew up in foster care, you spent alot of time worrying....now you need to refocus on all the things in life you WANT to happen!

Write down all the things you want in your life: love, happiness, good health, car, job, $, whatever, DONOT write down anything that you don't want, only what you want and only the good things:

Say them in present tense and be specific: I can't wait to pick up my Mercedes or I want $20, 000 extra income before the year ends..(they say make it realistic to your talent, life, situation...)

LISTEN when it's time to take ACTION!! this is the number one reason for failure on your plan, you don't listen to your instinct..(also could  known as the universe or your spirit guide). The "thing" that tells you an idea, (write a book, make a piece of jewelry like no one else, sing like no one else, clean like no one else, organize..etc), this thing inspires you to do whatever your gift is better than anyone else and you end up creating something amazing....only to ignore it... for example: everyone says you have the best voice..and you wrote songs that everyone likes....problem: your friend wants you to be in his band...but you make excuses and never join....they become big and genereate money from it.....now you lost out because you did not listen to you, (this is only one example). Point: you must take action when your instinct is telling you to do something creative- sing, write, dance, organize, invent, create, travel, --even if your life is not going where you want it to go--CHANGE IT!!

We are all in charge of our own life--If you hate your job, look for another or create a job for yourself that brings in money.....you spend 40 hours a week helping your company be #1 why not invest in your own?

If you want a new mate....drop the old one, take a chance on being alone, you cannot attract a new mate until you rid yourself of old first!
If you want your kids to be "better", show them how, take them to the museum, show them the world, not your local area, talk to them kinder, you are the parent, teach them well and they will come back to that teaching...
The point is put your energy on all the things you want in your life NOT what you don't want, like the secret says: you are just attracting more of what you don't want when you think, speak or act on those things...xo Tanya

True Happiness

Good day blog family!
I hope you are safe and well and learning to prosper. I hope you are working on being a better you and helping others spread a message of love...Tanya

What does a person need to be happy, especially after they have aged out of a system and went through life without parents or some family?


After thinking about this question for many years and living life a little, I think I know what one needs to have true happiness.....

Patience with self....for nothing comes, including change in one minute.


Self Love.....If you don't love you, who will? Does not matter that you had no parents, it matters that you come to accept you for you and accept your limitations, strength and greatness just for being, loving and wanting change..

Sprituality...of some sort, no you do not have to be "religious" just know that something is bigger than you and it will help you when you are thinking of harming yourself, others or just scared and confused...this "greater thing" will guide you better than your "parents" could, whatever "it" is, (some say God, Allah or higher being"....it is connected with you and your journey in this life, ever guiding you and teaching you new lessons, if you listen to this spirit guide, you can never go wrong...

Silence/Quiet....yes, you must learn to go somewhere for a place of silence: this could be walking for 45 minutes, it could mean going to quaker meeting, ( they sit in silence ),
it could mean going in your room with your eyes closed for 15 minutes,
 whatever time,
wherever does not really matter,
it matters that you have time to listen to what the universe/God is telling you,
yes, they talk all the time,
we rarely listen or we are so busy listening to
 tv, our friends,
our kids,
spouses, bosses,
 computers, cellphones,
we rarely have time to listen to our inner voice...
If you are to have peace,
Quiet is needed better known as "Silence"...this is your greatest weapon for clarity...in any storm....


Love....I know we did not get it as much as those with parents and some did not get any, that is ok, it is usually the first thing you learn as a mother takes care of you from birth BUT you can teach yourself to love not only you but others. Be able to meet ALL people on there terms, not yours....if your friend talks too much, so what perhaps you will learn something if you listen,
if your friend smokes and you try to tell them its bad for you,
don't preach them in the ground,
just let them know you love them and as long as they don't do it around you...
meeting people were they are at...
key to learning to love..
love also gives you extra energy...
if you give it away, you will always have it in your heart and spirit, luminating around you and attracting all the things in life you want...


ENERGY..this is big...
nothing in life on this earth operates without energy....
NOTHING, not the bug, fly, animals, computers, people....
All things have some form of energy...what makes us think we can navigate life without it?
YOU CAN"T!
 If you don't have any read the secret and buy the book the alchemist, by pablo quelo...read Anthony Robbins, "Awaken The Giant"...
you need some form of motivation..
you can also get it by helping others in need,
taking a long walk to clear your head, eating foods with nutrition. bluberrys, apples etc... not proceesed food or things that poisen the body....
 energy can always be found, usually starting with your mind...think:I want to get up today and move around, talk with positive people, they will always re-charge you...
Knowing you have ...Purpose...everyone is here for a reason, even the bad guy...find yours, it will keep you focused..
these are the basics to be happy...it was meant for you to be happy...seek it out if it is not already in your life!

xo Tanya
smile.....i am watching you!!!