True Happiness

Good day blog family!
I hope you are safe and well and learning to prosper. I hope you are working on being a better you and helping others spread a message of love...Tanya

What does a person need to be happy, especially after they have aged out of a system and went through life without parents or some family?


After thinking about this question for many years and living life a little, I think I know what one needs to have true happiness.....

Patience with self....for nothing comes, including change in one minute.


Self Love.....If you don't love you, who will? Does not matter that you had no parents, it matters that you come to accept you for you and accept your limitations, strength and greatness just for being, loving and wanting change..

Sprituality...of some sort, no you do not have to be "religious" just know that something is bigger than you and it will help you when you are thinking of harming yourself, others or just scared and confused...this "greater thing" will guide you better than your "parents" could, whatever "it" is, (some say God, Allah or higher being"....it is connected with you and your journey in this life, ever guiding you and teaching you new lessons, if you listen to this spirit guide, you can never go wrong...

Silence/Quiet....yes, you must learn to go somewhere for a place of silence: this could be walking for 45 minutes, it could mean going to quaker meeting, ( they sit in silence ),
it could mean going in your room with your eyes closed for 15 minutes,
 whatever time,
wherever does not really matter,
it matters that you have time to listen to what the universe/God is telling you,
yes, they talk all the time,
we rarely listen or we are so busy listening to
 tv, our friends,
our kids,
spouses, bosses,
 computers, cellphones,
we rarely have time to listen to our inner voice...
If you are to have peace,
Quiet is needed better known as "Silence"...this is your greatest weapon for clarity...in any storm....


Love....I know we did not get it as much as those with parents and some did not get any, that is ok, it is usually the first thing you learn as a mother takes care of you from birth BUT you can teach yourself to love not only you but others. Be able to meet ALL people on there terms, not yours....if your friend talks too much, so what perhaps you will learn something if you listen,
if your friend smokes and you try to tell them its bad for you,
don't preach them in the ground,
just let them know you love them and as long as they don't do it around you...
meeting people were they are at...
key to learning to love..
love also gives you extra energy...
if you give it away, you will always have it in your heart and spirit, luminating around you and attracting all the things in life you want...


ENERGY..this is big...
nothing in life on this earth operates without energy....
NOTHING, not the bug, fly, animals, computers, people....
All things have some form of energy...what makes us think we can navigate life without it?
YOU CAN"T!
 If you don't have any read the secret and buy the book the alchemist, by pablo quelo...read Anthony Robbins, "Awaken The Giant"...
you need some form of motivation..
you can also get it by helping others in need,
taking a long walk to clear your head, eating foods with nutrition. bluberrys, apples etc... not proceesed food or things that poisen the body....
 energy can always be found, usually starting with your mind...think:I want to get up today and move around, talk with positive people, they will always re-charge you...
Knowing you have ...Purpose...everyone is here for a reason, even the bad guy...find yours, it will keep you focused..
these are the basics to be happy...it was meant for you to be happy...seek it out if it is not already in your life!

xo Tanya
smile.....i am watching you!!!