WORRYING....STOP IT!
I KNOW WE HAVE TO PAY BILLS, EAT, PROVIDE FOR OUR SELF OR FAMILY BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY WORRY CAN LEAD TO SICKNESS SO WHY DO IT?
WHEN U HAVE A PROBLEM:
1. THINK OF THE WORSE SCENARIO
2. WHAT CAN U DO TO CHANGE IT?
3. IF YOU CAN DO IT, IF YOU CAN'T, WHY WORRY IT WILL NOT CHANGE THE PROBLEM!
IN FACT, IT WILL MAKE IT WORSE BECAUSE NOW ITS ALL U THINK ABOUT AND YOU BUILD ANXIETY...AND THAT CAN LEAD TO A PANIC ATTACK! WORRY IS POINTLESS, ESPECIALLY IF U CANNOT CHANGE IT, EITHER YOU CAN OR YOU CAN YOU WILL OR YOU WON'T, YOU NEED IT OR YOU CAN LIE WITHOUT IT.. KILL THE WORRY WART IN YOU. I KNOW FOSTER KIDS WHO BECOME ADULTS TEND TO WORRY BECAUSE THEIR WHOLE CHILDHOOD WAS SPENT WONDERING WHERE THE NEXT MEAL WAS COMING FROM, IF MOMMY WAS HIGH, IF WE WERE HOMELESS, IF SOMEONE WAS GOING TO VIOLATE, ALL VALID REASONS FOR WORRY, BUT NOW YOU ARE GROWN, NO ONE CAN HURT U UNLESS U ALLOW IT, U CAN ALWAYS GET FOOD FROM THE PANTRY OR CHURCH AND THEIR ARE SHELTERS EVERYWHERE IF NOT COME TO NY, THEY WILL HELP U OUT! U HAVE NO NEED TO WORRY NOW. YOUR LIFE CAN ONLY CHANGE IF U MAKE CHANGES, IF U NEED MORE $ GET A 2ND JOB, BABYSIT IF U HAVE TO MANY KIDS TO LEAVE YOUR HOME, WORK AT A FOOD STORE CASHIERING, WAITRESS, (GREAT TIPS), JUST DON'T COMPLAIN UNTIL YOU HAVE NETWORKED OR DID ALL STEPS TO MAKE A CHANGE AND STOP WORRYING... WE ARE ALL NEEDED, ENJOY THIS LIFE, STOP WORRYING AND START LIVING A HAPPY LIFE. XO TANYA
PS. I SUGGEST U READ DALE CARENGE, HOW TO STOP WORRYING, THIS BOOK CONFIRMED ALOT OF WHAT I KNEW ABOUT WORRYING AND AS AN EXFOSTER CHILD OR ANYONE WITH PAST ISSUES, IT REALLY CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE!
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