When your back is against the wall, what do you do?

When your back is against the wall, what do you do?

Everyone is faced with turmoil at some point in there lives, it is more of a challenge if you don't have family to back you.
imagne if:
your living arrangements are not working out,
the rent has gone up.
You have to pay your car insurance or eat.
You need to see a Dr., but have no insurance.
You have no where to move to and may be homeless if you don't think fast.
You have no money in the bank, heck you have no money until payday, (if your lucky)...
WHAT DO YOU DO?
NOTHING!
That's right, nothing. When you are cornered and have no options,
you must listen to the universe.
YOU NEED COMPLETE SILENCE!
I have said before, silence is needed to solve most problems.
If y0u are always talking and others are always talking, the tv is on, the children are talking, the dog is barking,
How can you hear your message of what to do?
How do you find your gift that will allow you to prosper or your key to get out of misery?
Silence!
LISTEN to the universe,
it never lies....
when you think it is over or you are at your end remember in the storm....
"this to shall pass"....
if no one told you you are loved and VERY SPECIAL,
peace and smile all day monday!
brighten someones day...Tgirl

What Do you have on your mind??

Good morning to all! What a night!
alot on the brain can drain you.
When you have alot of things on your plate at one time, STOP! BREATH! LISTEN!
yes, listen, the universe is trying to tell you something!
If we are always rushing and filled with anxiety, how can you hear your good message for the day?
YOU CAN'T! quiet your mind, turn off the tv, radio, (and people)....go somewhere quiet, take a walk by some water or trees... recenter yourself, that is the key to easing the mind.
When you are in a chaotic state, it is because you allowed all the chaos to take over.
YOU ARE ALWAYS IN CHARGE, even when it does not seem like it on the outside. It takes one mind shift to change our mental circumstance, DON't let chaos win! You are always in control because it is your mind, use it or lose it!! hey, have a blessed day, and if no one told you, you are loved and special, Tgirl
if you have any questions or need encouragement email me with foster kid in the title tgirlcooper@yahoo.com

Gooday to all!

I hope you are constantly trying to improve yourself. Know what you are worth as a person and what you bring to this life, we all bring a gift...check out legallykidnapped.com they keep you in the loop on what's happening with social services and children in foster care around the US...
have a good day and be the best you everyday!! peace and love

Good day to all. Do you see how beautiful those flowers are? Did you really look?

Have you ever realized how blessed you truley are? When you wake each morning you should greet the world with a smile and gratitude. To think that some of us did not wake this morning or we woke with illness. No matter what we are going through living is always better than death. I want you to always choose life, because it is yours and you are a gift to this world, find out what it is and be grateful you had another day to do it! If no one told you, i love you and have a blessed day.

Hard economic times have hit some. Did we ever stop to think about the 26,000 or so children who are released from foster care every year? The world would be a better place if we were less selfish. I have faced a few situations in my life that needed someone to intervene. I have been fortunate enough to have total strangers help me. If they helped me to eat for the day or gave me a place to sleep for the night is irrelevant, the fact that they helped is what really mattered. There are many homeless, living in their cars or sleeping on a park bench, what can we do to help? Trust, privacy & safety come to mind when i think of helping a stranger. Maybe we can start by helping someone we know? I know many are hanging on by a thin thread due to this "recession", what is an ex foster kid with no family soppose to do? My advice to you, call on friends but be willing to sacrafice your space, time, privacy and be open to bartering, working extra hours to help them with bills. If you are of able body, never stay with someone for free, try to offer a service until you are on your feet, pay one of the bills, buy grocery's. You don't want to be a burden, you just want help to figure your way out. The local YMCA rents rooms to single men and woman. See if someone is renting a room in there home. Take a job that requires overnight hours, do whatever it takes to survive. DO NOT EVER SELL YOURSELF OR YOUR SOUL and stay away from drugs and drinking, you need a clear head and sober mind. If no one told you today, i love you and have a blessed day, know that you are special, tanya

Hi to all. i hope your day was pleasant, how could it not be with the sun shinning and we still have breadth?

ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE that is the message for today
Maybe you are living in a bad situation, know that change can happen in an instant
In the meantime you must be grateful to the universe for allowing you prescious life.
This is the most important gift and we take it for granted and let others take it away
if you are thankful for life and general health, your brain can be open to ideas that will allow you to step away from the mess your in.
Don't think, why me,
think i am still alive,
my brain is still functioning,
what can i do to get out of this situation
the universe will always give you answers
you must quiet your mind
listen and know that you are special
live long enough, wise enough, and you will see how special you are
May you be blessed and please say a kind word to someone else today
pray for others to be well and prosperious
peace and blessings,
Tanya

Welcome online foster family!!!

Hi, welcome to foster kids unite! I am excited because i know that one person can make a difference but us working togeather can help more foster kids.
There is nothing like leaving foster care and not having no family. Holidays are lonely, in fact it is often a high time for suicidal thoughts.
Being without family can also lead to drug use or latching onto any partner that will have you. You deserve the best and just because a parent gave you away or the system took you away from family does not mean you have to settle.
You are special and the universe has great things for all of us who plan.
If you don't have any family or was abused by your foster family and cannot go back for holidays, let me know via email and i will try to contact you for the holidays.
I want you to know that even if you were abused or neglected today is a new day and you have to love yourself and then the world will follow. I want this site to become an online family for those without. It matters not where you live. Don't forget to let me know what you are thinking, please be kind to someone today, kindness is contagious! Don't forget its National foster kid month!!!