Last Foster Care Awareness Event for FosterKidsUnite, Inc.

 Hey fam!

hope you are all well and with love, kindness and passion for the gifts the universe has given you! I hope you are spreading love, your talents, your gifts and your skill far and wide. I hope you are being your authentic you and taking care of you after this pandemic.

Lesson I learned:  

1. Do what YOU love

2. Travel where there are NO restrictions or Warnings of kidnappings, etc..(and only test required, if anything else is asked and you have to chance your life, Don't allow anyone to bully you into YOUR belief, even if NO ONE agrees! Traveling allows you to see other cultures, lifestyles, and how a Country treats its sick, poor and orphans like us.

Traveling you meet new people, your learn to appreciate YOU as YOU are and you stop EDITING other people...(you will see as you travel what I mean by that wait til your over 45 like me (wink)...

3. LIVE YOUR BEST LIFE!!!! not the instagram one, but the one that you show up to, go outside for, meet friends for, show yourself for...and LOVE yourself for YOU...NO edit needed!!!

God made you divine, as is...never let ANYONE, including family, friends or strangers make you into what you are not, be true to thine self. LIVE LIVE LIVE..life is short so you want quality...We are all here to experience NO ONE can help you with YOUR TRAUMA, DRAMA ...YOU must DO the WORK. Go to therapy, seek out groups, write in a journal, sing a song, paint go for a long walk....PROCESS everything in your life that does NOT serve YOU....let it go!! LET them go! Let God /The universe, guide you NOT man...

You are with light and love...go, go go!! I am always rooting for you.

this is our last event! Thank you to all who have donated time, money and love to our aged out foster youth. I will still be blogging on foster youth here.

Friday May 20th at 6:30pm via zoom

 rsvp onthetownwithtanya@gmail.com for link 

Thank you for being here. I LOVE all of my foster youth and will continue to help my mentees and any youth I can. 

I will spend time now writing, Screenplays, comedy and my interview show on  youtube: "ON The Town WIth Tanya" (like subscribe) airs live Sundays at 8pm

xo Tanya

Inspiration with Montell Griffin Former light heavyweight world boxing champ

fosterparentsonly: your first week in a group home or foster care?

fosterparentsonly: your first week in a group home or foster care?

Foster Youth Resources with former foster, Author, Danny Vann

 please visit dannyvann.com page to find resources for any foster youth or aged out youth!

fosterkidsuniteinc@gmail.com if you need resources!!!

we love you and God is Always with you!!! keep faith no matter what, we NEVER give up or give in!!

"Living Between Miracles" Author Wandra Brown

Trauma Healing through Rapid Transformational Therapy

your first week in a group home or foster care?

A True Mother's Day Miracle | Loren Michaels-Harris | Goalcast

Graffiti Legend/Author James Top

Unbreakable Me Author, Elizabeth Graybill

When you have done your work in past addiction and enter recovery, when you have said your sorry, said your peace and asked for forgiveness, don't allow anyone to hold you hostage UNLESS they sexually or physically abused you, then you can walk away and forgive but lose that dead weight. 

YOU should NEVER have to be in a room with someone who sexually, physically or mentally abused you NEVER, unless YOU say so. 

You don't owe an abuser anything nor your time or space, in fact, i would say get as fare away from them as you can, even if its your parents, siblings, (unless siblings was made to commit horror acts unwillingly and would be abused also IF they did not), that is up to you to forgive in that type of case. 

If your parents were on drugs and they did not use you for drugs or abuse you, then it's up to you both to repair the relationship and start new. 

Allow them time to get it right or atleast get it...if they ask and show you they are trying, work with them walk away and breath when you have to but don't hold them hostage when they are doing right...you are blessed to get a 2nd chance, I never got one....

sending love to all my orphans and those on their own due to dysfunctional family, God loves you and FKU loves you!!! Keep reaching for the stars,  it is YOU that make the world bright!! xo

Tanya