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Sunday, June 14, 2009

FOSTER KIDS UNITE: OMG MAKE NO EXCUSES

FOSTER KIDS UNITE: OMG MAKE NO EXCUSES

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OMG MAKE NO EXCUSES

OMG, i was watching Wayne Dyer on TV today, (rare, i don't like tv), anyway, there was a young man on there who was burned beyond recognition....he was showing the audience his drum playing skills.....with no "hands"!! yes, you heard me, no hands! I believe the title was "No Excuses".. it was powerful for this young man to tell his story and to say that he had to be the one to get burned, because he had many to teach to. I often feel i had to be abused because if it were anyone else, they would be on drugs, in a phych unit, or dead from self inflicted wounds! I know now that i had to go through my abuse to HELP OTHERS! I know it is not about ME! Once you learn that your mother did not give you away because she wanted to ruin your life and that it was not your fault, life can start to happen.. I am glad my mother gave me away, especially when i look at where i would be if she had not, WOW! God is amazing! We can no longer make excuses of why we are not at our best, be like nike, just do it! God did not bring you through all of this pain, (he did not cause it either, he just guided you through to safety), to leave you. If you don't beleive in God, the universe is fine. You are hear for a reason and you will be a blessing to someone else, if you do the work on yourself, love yourself and know you have purpose! xo Tanya

Saturday, June 13, 2009

Realizing your Dreams




Did you have a dream that fell by the way because you did not have the proper support?

Do you think your too old to do it now?

Remember, it is never too late as long as you have breath in your body and a mind!

There are times when we all feel we will fail at our dream, so we don't even persue it like we should. We stop making the calls, makeing the contacts, making the work that would have got our work noticed.

The universe gave all of us gifts; some may be writing, painting, singing, dancing, talking, (yes talking and listening can make a great counselor), sewing, reading, sports player, whatever you do WAY better than others, could be one of your gifts!

Try to work on it, perfect it. You will know it is your gift if everyone likes and or notices it MORE than anyone elses! If you are a person that was in foster care or in an abusive home as a child, you may not have the confidence needed to fulfill your dream. I am here to tell you, you have the strength, just believe in your talent and yourself. Don't 2nd guess yourself when you know you are the best at what you do. The universe sends us signs that we are on the right path, but we usually ignore them,

example: lets say your dream is to be a famous singer one day -

in one week you meet 2 music producers looking for singers, and you see a sign for a singing contest and then you hear on tv that a new show for singers is looking for talent to be on the show.... all of these were signs not coincedance! follow your dream, whatever it may be! last week i told you to discover your talent or gifts, did you? let them take you to a higher finacial level in your life, get paid for what you do well, (LEGAL OFCOURSE)

Don't ever give up, it is never too late, get an internship, go back to school, get a mentor, there is no excuse not to achieve your dream, dream big and don't stop! xo T

YOu are special!!

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

Looking for the "Perfect" Me!



Have you ever been searching and searching, for the perfect you, all to find:

GET YOUR HEAD OUT OF THE CLOUDS!

there is no one on the face of this planet perfect!

We are all trying to be the best me we can be. You don't have to search, its in your heart!

You can feel when you are treating you well and you can feel when you are at your best. We are all a work in progress

. Don't judge yourself by others, love yourself and others.... I spent my teen and twentys looking for perfection and myself, i am how the universe intended.

We have flaws, we want things, we need people, we hurt, we can be happy...

WE ARE HUMAN!

allow yourself room to "mess up" as long as you pick yourself back up and keep going, that will lead you to the best you!

If no one said: you are the best and you are loved!!Tgirl

Friday, June 5, 2009

FOSTER KIDS UNITE: Avoid drugs and alchohol

FOSTER KIDS UNITE: Avoid drugs and alchohol

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I'm leaving on a jet plane!




gooday all

have you ever wanted to get as far away from here as you could?

Thinking this would solve your problem?

YOU ARE WHERE YOUR AT!!!

If you are not happy with the inner you, unhappiness will follow you wherever you go....

Fix inside before you go outside your area...


in case no one said to you, you are special

Wednesday, June 3, 2009

Avoid drugs and alchohol


hi all.

ok we all know doing drugs and excessive drinking is not good but if you are depressed or isolated, its not a good idea. Think about when you are in a bar.... you are talking to people who have poisened themselves! When you are "drunk" you are poisening yourself! what a crazy concept.. go out to have fun, get myself sick, meet more sick people and we get sick togeather! I was in a resterant/bar recently and was appalled at the fact that: "NO ON LISTENS" when they are drunk and your conversation with them is pointless... (ok i am really going off here)..

Ok the real point is, if you feel bad about yourself, why do a chemical or drink that will make you feel worse, or give you a false illusion of feeling better and as soon as your sober, your back to feeling low...

i suggest to anyone in foster care or any adults who have issues that are hurting them mentally , solve the issue first or work through it, don't use drugs and drinking as an escape, it may catch up to you..

Did you know that if your father was an addict of any kind, you have a 60% chance of becomeing one if your a boy and 30% if your a girl!

This world is hard to navigate alone, You need your head clear.

if you want to escape take a trip to Paris and stair at the Eiffel Tour, go look at the flowers above in person in Brussels or go visit the nearest lake and walk around enjoying the beauty, (don't jump in)...you are worth alot to this universe and we need you here...

if no one told you you are loved, please be kind to someone, it may save a life! xo tgirl