This is a place where you can come for advice or a kind word. If you are in a group home, Foster care or had no family due to any circumstance, There are many things you may not have learned. I hope to motivate change in your life!
If you have no family to inspire you on bad days, you may find something here to show you how to get out of your bubble and "take back your life!
* These words are my opinions only and based on my 16 years in foster care! FosterKidsUniteInc@gmail.com
This song is by one of our own!!! #LavalaRue a former foster - thank you Chlodoe for the introduction, LOVE her and her music!!!!!
Fosters, follow your gift and it will bring you peace, closure and joy!!!!
Whatever you do, don't be desperate, don't be so willing to do ANYTHING to get fame off your talent, and avoid anyone in association with the diddy!!!!! Cassie is one of many sad stories, you can avoid traffickers, abusive men who hate woman and kids!!!!! Your talent should speak for itself, no. need to do anything other than basic audition NOTHING else.... This young singer proves you can do it all independent IF you put in the same work you do on social media!
teach kids how NOT to fall into the wrong hands by loving them, hearing them, caring for them, supporting them....now you know why fosters are more likely to fall into the hands of traffickers and abusers....low self esteem can do that. Generational curses must be stopped, start young!!! self love, acceptance, as is and love thyself no matter what!!!
stay blessed, pray up, the devil is lurking upon the earth rampid but our fate is to shine and bring light no matter what, "we never give up!!!"
blessings to you all. I share this in hopes that my fosters know that there are many sports they can involve themselves in to A. Keep busy B. earn a living C. meet connections D. have fun exercise.
Think of other sports to try, golf, tennis, lacrosse, swimming, boating, we are more than just the sports we are often lead to due to what's in our community or reach, and football and basketball are great sports, (if i had a son, i would not allow him to play due to head injury's but IF that is your calling, so be it do it the best).
I hope jC inspires one of you to pick up a golf club or go caddy as a part-time job...my brother Rob use to work at a Country club, thats where he discovered his love for golf.
its your big sis Tan, its been a while! life is flying by and i am enjoying it like you should be! At all cost protect YOUR happiness, your LIGHT, and the love you have left to give, (yes, we still have it..we made it!!!)
Be grateful every day! Try to say something kind or atleast smile at one person a day and...plan for the future, you have to see yourself in it to be a part of it!!! If you made it this far, no matter what happened in our home or foster care experience, you are a winner!!!!!! Thank your ancestors each day you wake and God (if you don't beleive thats ok, the universe...as long as you know there is something greater, bigger than any human)..
I am sharing this because foster parents, agencys, foster youth in college, you need to have a financial goal and plan!!! Learn about investing, learn about having your own business OR getting your PHD or Masters so that you can be CEO, partner ... many avenues to go and IF you want to be an assisteant, (smile, hugs), that is just as good!!!! As long as your are the best at what you do and do it with pride, love and honor!
watch the video, inbox Nadine tell her On The Town With Tanya told you about Nadine, she is working hard to assure we ALL know about generational wealth, life insurance, portfolios.....all that is needed to relax and let your money work for you. It takes time to learn this, learn NOW!!! parents should be teaching this as early as 5 but its never too late. Some things i am JUST listening to because as a foster and then when i aged out i was too consumed with my past abuse 9-15 to focus on anything but living each day...i made it out and so can you. and my midlife will be matching my $ to my talent and gifts, its NEVER too late!!
I love all of my foster youth and foster adults and anyone who has no family OR a non functioning family...you are loved, be loving be kind be intentional!!!
email me anytime you have an issue i will try to steer you right. Thank you for being with us!!! xoxo
It is crucial to share your story but to listen to others, that is where we find healing from abuse.
Please know that you are loved and that it is NEVER your fault when any abuse happens. Maria is an example of how god can change anyone's life around IF they do the work! You are divine, don't allow abuse to stop you from reaching YOUR greatness!!!
